Things that Stress Me

-sees that this reply is super late and apologizes profusely-

The thing is, what bothers you may not bother someone else, but that doesn't mean that your concerns are any less relevant. If these things stress you out or bother you, then it's important that you take the time to take care of your feelings. Stress when blown up from allowing it accumulate isn't a good thing, it can hurt you. It's important to talk about it.

There are some things on your list that simply require patience, like waiting for your partner in RP-ing to reply back (I'm like that too) but you must understand that they may not be able to reply at that moment for various reasons. If you feel as though your patience is running thin, try thinking of the person as helping someone who needs assistance and cannot come to the computer right now. Or maybe they're studying for a really tough exam and have limited their computer use. 

I do not own little kitties, so I cannot say anything about that, except maybe to show them as much love as you can. <3

When you are feeling frustrated from not being able to write anything, perhaps because of writer's block, or when things don't go the way you expect them to, try taking a deep breath. It may seem silly, but it actually helps a lot. I found that when I was running out of time during a lab experiment in school, I stressed out. What helped me was taking a huge breath, holding it for as long as I could, and then releasing it slowly. Sometimes, I did it more than once. Each time, I managed to calm down and try a different way of doing things. If I was running out of time, and my time management didn't go as planned, I tried to work faster, but made sure that I could still get things done properly. When your body calms down, your mind will be able to think more clearly, because then your brain isn't too busy sending signals to your body to respond to your stress.

If you are feeling down because you think people don't care about you or that they think badly of you, it's important to know that you are your own person and that what you are feeling is normal if something goes wrong, or after a time you haven't received much love. There may be other reasons too, and these insecurities are all within us. But you must know that, if you have friends, or people you consider family, you are loved. If you are a writer, an artist, a scientist, or anything else, and people have said that they like your work, then you are loved and admired. I have the same feelings, and I keep telling myself that I'm not cut out for this world, but then I look at all the people who call my name and realize that it isn't too bad. If you need someone, anyone at all, and feel as though you cannot turn to the people around you, feel free to message me. I will try to reply as soon as I can, but I apologize if I make it late.
Remember, you are cared about, and you are loved. <3

I hoped that I helped in some way.

~xyugiohluvrx